Umfundisi kufanele athuthukise amakhono abafundi bakhe besifazane, aqaphele ukuthambekela kwabo futhi enze ngaleyo ndlela. Futhi le ntombi yayidlala kahle umtshingo wesikhumba. Leli khono lizomzuzisa kakhulu, hhayi kuphela ezifundweni zakhe, kodwa nasempilweni yansuku zonke. Into esemqoka ukuphindaphinda kwansuku zonke kanye nemitshingo ehlukene.
Nokho, abafowabo nodadewabo ngamzali munye abahlobene nhlobo, ngakho-ke ngeke kubhekwe njengento embi noma engcolile. Akumangazi ukuthi insizwa nentombazane endala, abangenabo abalingani abavamile bocansi futhi cishe nsuku zonke bendawonye, kungazelelwe bazizwe bekhangwa ezingeni locansi komunye nomunye. Uma kucatshangelwa ukuthi intombazane iyithandile (umfana ke akukho mbuzo), ngicabanga ukuthi bazoqhubeka nokwenza lolu hlobo lwento ngezikhathi ezithile.